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I want to say some profound things—not to say them but so you will carry them even closer to the bone.

:- Doug.

A mysterious thing is conversation. Sometimes we have it and sometimes it has us. Sometimes we start it, or it starts us. We birth it, or it births us. It is of the essence of life, yet what know we of life?

We help each other think through a decision. We do new things, we become new persons.

We become an entity. We making healing, wholeness, realization of being part of a larger whole—an essential, contributing part.

The world works on us; we work on the world. The conversation works on us; we work on the conversation. Mysterious.

:- Doug.

What is the best life is meant to be? How do we do and be more of that?

:- Doug.

What do we all want here?

:- Doug.

Many times we have a vending machine picture of law: put in a coin, out comes a certain result, predictably. Time by time we find we are in a flowing stream with 10,000 variables floating past, each can touch us, change us, bend the results, and become new starting places.

:- Doug.

Often, goal setting
sets us to problems
throws us into the morning fog
all we can see clearly is
we’re not adequate, we have
something in us to overcome
we miss the open skies
our best of the best
dreaming together
coming alive
sacredly creating

:- Doug.

Elder caring is like running the East Race. I do not know how it will come out. It is different each time.

:- Doug.

It is impossible to step twice
into the same
river of life

:- Doug.

Think you that
G*d cannot penetrate
This cloud cover
Over your eyes,
Thoughts and
Heart,
G*d being all of these?

:- Doug.

Daily we are stitching together many fabrics. They may then make a new pattern, tell a new story. That is the richer way of conversation. Each fabric may pull out of the others around it a new shade or texture of meaning. Their borders become openings. Their stitching allows new movements.

:- Doug.

Don’t think while in conversation—hear instead; take the person in to your being. Rattle around in there, as in an attic full of fascinating things. Create an us.

:- Doug.

G*d is living
G*d is loving
G*d is oceanic
Adjectival and verb-al
All at once

:- Doug.

When one of us is aging our only options are to respond with love or fear. Anything not love is fear.

:- Doug.

This family can live and love into our future. Let’s get to work.

:- Doug.

Our search for a leader or an organization is natural, but misplaced. What we seek naturally is another to spark our ideas back and forth: a playmate and a space through which sparks can become visible. The misplaced part is because this can be any person.

:- Doug.

What would you be willing to do to help your family come alive now?

:- Doug.

How young are you?

:- Doug.

What questions could this family ask which would start us on a game of hide and seek?

:- Doug.

The questions we ask prod us to look, to create.

:- Doug.

Don’t solve problems,
invent new ones!

:- Doug.

I work with caring people
some of whom are
elders of our tribe

:- Doug.

Thinking clearly with our hearts.

:- Doug.

Elder life is a question without an answer.

:- Doug.