Your ears allow
If you can hear them, you might influence them. Your ears allow you to flow in to them.
:- Doug.
If you can hear them, you might influence them. Your ears allow you to flow in to them.
:- Doug.
Can there be friendships across generations? Can these perhaps be more satisfying than other friendships?
:- Doug.
Grandchildren are real people too
Wanting real intimacy
Wanting to invent life
:- Doug.
Write from where I am in life, bring forth the repeating quandaries over generations.
:- Doug.
Write of what to this one it feels like to have left one career and to tentatively invent the life just starting.
:- Doug.
Will the later generation of necessity be wiser, or like us, have gained some, lost some?
:- Doug.
The work is converse across the generations, the impossible dilemma between the need for each other and the distance among.
:- Doug.
When you come to my loved one’s funeral
Just stand by me
When you visit the 11th generation, then too
:- Doug.
If we can form a friendship with a grandchild across centuries, what can possibly be impossible?
:- Doug.
If we are to visit our grandchildren, what is this new kind of passport? The Grandparent Passport!
:- Doug.
What are the concerns of our lives? Here we can study. How might these be approached by later generations?
:- Doug.
To my 11th generation grandchild: You know about me. I don’t know about you—where do we differ?
:- Doug.
The natural outcome of goals is they are too small, and produce only short-term visible results. They abdicate the large, the impossible, the vital.
:- Doug.
One advantage one imagines of a conversation with one’s own 11th generation is that there is a quick openness to sharing inner darkness, light, truths, and quandaries. It does not matter what I think of them or they of me. We are not trying to impress each other. Or maybe not.
:- Doug.