Continue developing
We may be about continuity and development—these are our yin and yang.
:- Doug.
I think I am comfortable with my own death and dying. What is the sprite journey thro’ old age? I don’t know—I am only young old.
:- Doug.
Could contemplative growth encourage development of transcendence? If we want to find out, how would we be in contemplative conversation?
:- Doug.
Our conversation now becomes with life itself, the cosmos, the generations. Into that we best go hand in hand.
:- Doug.
You have something to offer the world—subtle, artful, nuanced, shy, and vulnerable.
:- Doug.
Let’s tend to eschew the sage or elder labels, if for no better reason than they are static nouns. For a similar reason we might avoid stage in favor of state: one is a ratchet term, the other a flow of variable possibilities.
:- Doug.
This is not a therapy room you visit once a week, but a way of life you enter. You help each other find fascinating and even horrific things about. It’s better to enter together.
:- Doug.
Maybe we start or end a meeting talking babble with one another—Bobbledy-boop! Remember Lee Glickstein’s gibberish eightieth birthday song?
:- Doug.
There is no worry that we get namby-pamby boring as long as we keep the sharp pointed curiosity—pointed toward larger loving.
:- Doug.
It’s not about listening but hearing—not about looking but seeing—not about being open but allowing ourselves to be immersed in a world larger and more engaging than you thought. Ultimately this world will take all of you. Because that’s what it gave you. And still gives you.
:- Doug.
Who is hot chocolate for? You and me and beyond; the eleventh generation and beyond; whatever is larger than the universe and beyond. What’s common here? Beyond. Living. Making for larger.
:- Doug.