Confrontation Stories
Confrontation Stories
:- Doug.

What is the essential thing for Dad and for the family in the face of Dad’s life as it is now? Essential for Dad: medical care? Custodial care? Working through the 47 things and perhaps spiritual or religious or psychological or sociological issues? Essential for family: to do for Dad? To nurture their relationship with Dad? To make memories? To kill themselves with overwork and stress? To develop relationships among themselves?
:- Doug.
It wonders me that this has no final answers, that we need to converse. Because we need to hear one another.
:- Doug.
Does law have to be only paper chasing? How can we help people reach toward whole? Reach toward where they are and being whole here?
:- Doug.
Converse about what matters. Tell what is really going on. Educate in possible ways to forgive, be forgiven, thank, say farewell, say what needs to be complete.
:- Doug.
Observe the human story unfolding in the lives of these peculiar and therefore representative people. You meet.
:- Doug.
We lawyers can remind people in crises of their humanity, from putting one foot in front of another, to asking what matters.
:- Doug.
What ought your dying look like? What if the medical issues were not the most important thing?
:- Doug.
Minutes ago she died
in her sleep
medically enforced
so was she able
to complete?
family left to live
choices past
memories sweet
and sour
anthems for
dyings to come
:- Doug.