Archive for May, 2017

Can you build and heal?

Can you build and heal? You can, through your conversations, in whatever form. You can become part of their stories, immersed.

:- Doug.

Published in: Conversations | on May 11th, 2017 | No Comments »

Responsibility for their own caring

Elders take responsibility, not for outcomes, rather for their own caring for the children, for the others.

:- Doug.

Published in: Conversations | on May 11th, 2017 | No Comments »

Invent the practice

Let us together invent the practice of eldering.

:- Doug.

Published in: Conversations | on May 11th, 2017 | No Comments »

Together imagine acts

Let us together imagine acts of eldering.

:- Doug.

Published in: Conversations | on May 11th, 2017 | No Comments »

Stitch us together?

Can we, in another’s story, however hard we must work to grasp it, find the threads to stitch us together as humans?

:- Doug.

Published in: Conversations | on May 11th, 2017 | No Comments »

Inciting a decent society

If we intend to be human we ought to open to hearing what is difficult to hear. Do we have the imagination to take into ourselves the experiences of another? Is this something an elder can learn for the rest of us, as an act of inciting a decent society?

:- Doug.

Published in: Conversations | on May 10th, 2017 | No Comments »

To sing his or her life

Here’s an elder in a nursing home, or here’s one with dementia: What could it mean to hear this one encouraged to tell or sing his or her life?

:- Doug.

Published in: Conversations | on May 10th, 2017 | No Comments »

Footprints in the Windsm # 1691–Your spirit swirling

Footprints in the Windsm # 1691

Your work in this life is to set your spirit swirling.


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Fear of the nursing home

Fear of the nursing home is a failure of imagination.

:- Doug.

Published in: Conversations | on May 10th, 2017 | No Comments »

Can it be fulfilling?

Can living with a nursing home be fulfilling?

:- Doug.

Published in: Conversations | on May 10th, 2017 | No Comments »

Not an experience

What people get from us is not an experience but a caring for. Longer running, closer to your core.

:- Doug.

Published in: Conversations | on May 10th, 2017 | No Comments »

What has your life taught you?

What has your life taught you about caring for another and about accepting care? Whom have you met and what have they taught you about being an elder, about the role of the elder in the family and community?

:- Doug.

Published in: Conversations | on May 9th, 2017 | No Comments »

Transformation of aging

Eldering is the transformation of aging to something larger.

:- Doug.

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Reflect the world’s sweep

Is it the work of the elder to change the world? No. Simply to reflect to us its sweep.

:- Doug.

Published in: Conversations | on May 9th, 2017 | No Comments »

To meet an elder is to be

To meet an elder is to be. Be heard, be seen, be so large as to fill the universe. To meet as an elder is to hear, see, allow the other to fill the universe, and maybe yourself.

:- Doug.

Published in: Conversations | on May 9th, 2017 | No Comments »

Changes too the poet

Minor poetry is beautiful, says little or much. Major poetry meets you, changes your being, changes too the poet.

:- Doug.

Published in: Conversations | on May 9th, 2017 | No Comments »

One who meets?

What it is like to be an elder who meets?

:- Doug.

Published in: Conversations | on May 8th, 2017 | No Comments »

Look for one who has a heart….

Look for a lawyer who has a heart, cares, hears you, opens herself or himself to you, takes time with you, protects you.

:- Doug.

Published in: Conversations | on May 8th, 2017 | No Comments »

What is it to meet?

What is it to meet an elder?

:- Doug.

Published in: Conversations | on May 8th, 2017 | No Comments »

What is the experience?

What is the elder’s experience?

:- Doug.

Published in: Conversations | on May 8th, 2017 | No Comments »

Further and deeper

Elders can take the world further and deeper—that’s why I am caring for them, protecting them.

:- Doug.

Published in: Conversations | on May 8th, 2017 | No Comments »

Upon a morning

Upon a morning
as my mind turns from sleep to
this day—I arise

:- Doug.

Published in: Conversations | on May 7th, 2017 | No Comments »

Read something outside

Read something outside your interests.

:- Doug.

Published in: Conversations | on May 7th, 2017 | No Comments »
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