Whom do you elder?
Whom do you elder? Grandchildren, grand-community, grand-cosmos?
:- Doug.

The stroke, the broken hip, the dementia: perhaps even these all things work together for good for those who love life.
:- Doug.
Even some of those whose minds don’t work the same may be choosing the way of the explorers.
:- Doug.
Clear eyed
How do we get there?
We work at it
Aunt Bee
Andy himself avuncular
Longer view, equable
Perhaps we don’t turn the world
We can be its safekeepers
Grumps can gritch
We can look for
Clear eyed
:- Doug.
Choose how you are going to live your elder years: as full of life and wisdom, or as throwaway.
:- Doug.
Things have not been going as I would like, yet overall, they are going well, and as they should. I had expected some things which did not happen. I am having pressure about some other things that feel like flies buzzing my ears. Normal things I suppose; at least by next week they won’t matter.
:- Doug.
I needed this time on this page today, but was denied for much of the day. It is good to get here and let things percolate.
:- Doug.
Think of the community underground in the forest—roots, mushroom mycelium, worms, bacteria—what they have experienced over ages.
:- Doug.
Menu of the ages of aging:
Crabby → Crappy
Playing → A time to not remember
Eldering → Grace
Which are you choosing?
:- Doug.
As elders, we are beings capable
of the threshold
beyond generation
beyond our own ego
beyond our own planet-time
:- Doug.
Footprints in the Windsm # 1662
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An elder is a martyr by virtue of hazarding all with full knowledge of her or his impending death.
:- Doug.
In a flow, take in what nourishes
or what you will nourish
let the rest flow on
let biting things, growling things
flow to their homes
:- Doug.
In eldering there is despair for the coming generations; gratitude for what we have experienced, lost, and what is opening; seeing with new eyes; communing with past and future generations; and new larger tasks.
:- Doug.
Conversation—the flow of all—is recognized in your expression, “What goes around comes around.”
:- Doug.