Leave
You must leave where you are.
:- Doug.
You must leave where you are.
:- Doug.
Within a larger
mysterious universe
could we e’er be lost?
:- Doug.
Wherever you are is called “Here”
Whenever, “Now”
Whoever, “You”
:- Doug.
Eldering is primarily about soul-centric development in elders, in society. It is about a felt change—that is, a step larger—of consciousness.
:- Doug.
It has been important for me to take in more and more possibilities—to allow others’ truths in—to see things of which I was unaware. This part of my eldering.
:- Doug.
Trust is not a need for conversation as much as safety for each participant.
:- Doug.
We cannot create relationships for we are already related. We can break relationships, we can nourish relationships, we can make our relationship more chewy.
:- Doug.
Friend, into your whole-increasing.
:- Doug.
What can we find to call forth from our lives a coherent thread, a wholeness, a story line?
:- Doug.
What do we see larger than middlers see?
:- Doug.
To you, what does it mean to elder another? Can one elder another without being a full-time elder? Do full-time elders exist? Can we aspire to be more-time elders?
:- Doug.
Present-centeredness may be a key to innocence.
:- Doug.
Commas are more pregnant than periods, question marks more so, and ellipses most….
:- Doug.
Wisdom is mainly in what we don’t know, in what we let go of knowing.
:- Doug.
See the world whole.
:- Doug.
Can’t teach all nor how to elder; there are only evocative principles and questions.
:- Doug.
Intend all possible meanings.
:- Doug.
Telling our stories maybe comes after we know the power of them. Wonder what that means.
:- Doug.
Birgitt Williams writes evocatively for me: “no empty space…. space is always Sacred Space, and rich in what is contained.”
This brings to me thoughts of David Bohm’s implicate order: the whole is always enfolding, unfolding, like a mother her child. So perhaps holding space and opening space each partakes of that same image: embracing, and still opening arms to let her child run free….
:- Doug.
Life: safe return doubtful.
:- Doug.
Lean toward the threshold. It cannot be cheated; it cannot be rushed nor stormed. It demands work, perhaps pain.
:- Doug.
We need people to reflect, ponder, imagine. This is the prime work: becoming shamans, prophets, elders.
:- Doug.
Friend, into your pondering. What do you reflect?
:- Doug.