Do we give up on low grumblers?

Do we give up on people who have low grumbles? Or do we talk to them about the places in their lives where they have high grumbles? Is it possible, even likely, that we will get to the higher if we start where they are? If we talk about times when they were at their best, when they were hurting, when someone was kind to them—and if we share our real selves—is it not likely that the conversation will flow to the richness we seek? Even if it is not the subject we seek, we in flexibility can admit that we received copiously.

:- Doug.

Published in: Conversations | on December 21st, 2008 | No Comments »

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